When families work with a doula during pregnancy and birth, they often don’t realize it’s preparing them for something else important: hiring and working with a nanny.
The experience of having a doula builds skills, confidence, and awareness that help families navigate future caregiving relationships — especially when it comes to bringing a nanny into the home.
What’s the Connection?
Doulas support families during deeply personal moments. They offer emotional, physical, and informational support before, during, and after birth. This type of partnership teaches families how to:
- Communicate their needs clearly
- Trust a professional in their personal space
- Ask for support while staying in control
- Respect caregiving expertise
- Recognize the value of emotional connection in care
These are the same skills that make hiring and working with a nanny smoother and more successful.
5 Ways Doula Experience Helps With Nanny Hiring
1. You Know What Support You Need
Families who’ve worked with a doula are often clearer about their values, parenting style, and the kind of help they want. This makes writing a job description and interviewing nannies much easier.
2. You’re Comfortable With a Professional in Your Home
Letting someone into your personal life isn’t always easy. But if you’ve had a doula support you during birth, you’ve already practiced inviting a trusted professional into your space.
3. You Know How to Build Trust
Doulas and families build trust through communication and respect. Those same habits transfer easily to nanny relationships.
4. You Understand the Value of Expertise
Families who have worked with doulas know that great care comes from experience and training. They tend to seek out nannies who are more than just babysitters — they want caregivers with real knowledge and skill.
5. You See the Difference Between Help and Replacement
Doulas don’t take over — they support. Families with this mindset are more likely to create healthy, respectful relationships with their nanny, too.
Practical Benefits When Hiring a Nanny
Better Interview Skills
You’ve already practiced asking meaningful questions and discussing personal needs with a doula. That experience makes for stronger, more confident nanny interviews.
Realistic Expectations
You know what professional support can — and can’t — do. You’re less likely to expect perfection, and more likely to build a respectful, balanced relationship.
Willingness to Invest in Care
Families who’ve paid for doula support understand that great care is worth the investment. They tend to approach childcare hiring with that same mindset.
You’re Already Ahead
Your doula experience has helped you:
- Express your preferences clearly
- Work through differences respectfully
- Give thoughtful feedback
- Build partnerships based on shared values
These same tools will help you find and work successfully with a nanny — someone who becomes part of your support system as your child grows.
Next Step: From Birth Support to Childcare
If you’ve had a positive experience with a doula and are now looking for a nanny, you’re already in a strong position.
At Seattle Nanny Network, we understand this transition. Our team helps families find not just a caregiver, but a true partner — someone who aligns with your parenting values and supports your child’s development.
We screen for qualifications, personality fit, and long-term compatibility — because we know that great childcare is more than just filling a role. It’s about building a trusted relationship that supports your whole family.
Your Parenting Journey Continues
From pregnancy to early childhood, the right support makes all the difference. Whether it’s a doula or a nanny, each step builds on the last. And when you’ve already experienced the power of professional support, you’re more prepared — and more empowered — to choose the next one with confidence.
Let Seattle Nanny Network help you find your next great partner in care.